Reader, You know that moment where you read something and discover that the author has, unwittingly, described YOU? That happened to me earlier this year when I was reading The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control by Katherine Morgan Schafler: Parisian perfectionists care very much about how well they perform and what others think of them, but they feel a peculiar sense of embarrassment about how much they care. This is because they carry within them a heightened sense of the ever popular...